Unwarranted advice.

If I hear the phrase "God's plan" or "Let go and let God" ONE MORE TIME!!!!

I am fully aware that God has a plan for my life, most days I accept this, and prayerfully seek his guidance for the days where it is harder to know. Not everyday for us is a walk in the park filled with daisies and sunshine. We know to appreciate the highs, you have to endure the lows. Again, I KNOW ALL OF THIS!!
For someone to approach me with advice that is unwarranted is appalling to me. Especially the people who seem to know more about my situation and God's path for me, than I do!  God and I are buddies, we chat! Especially lately I have a peace about this whole situation, and I know that only is coming from Him. So for you to sit there, and tell me what I am doing wrong, and how I need to ask God for better understanding is asinine.
This past 6 months, Mike and I have promised to be more open about the situation because people can't know they are being insensitive, unless they understand the root of the hurt. So we did this, and I regret it. Truth is, people still make stupid comments, people still say off the wall things, and people still are insensitive.
I strive everyday to be a good friend, and to be a shoulder for people to cry on when they are down. I want to be sensitive to their situation, yet give Christian advice when it is asked for, and it just boggles my mind that I do not get the same courtesy from 90% of the same people.
Truth is; yes, I have infertility I have experienced way more heartbreak in the past 5 years than most people do in a lifetime. It hurts. This whole journey consumes my life. I want people to be sensitive, but I have to understand, not always will that happen. For you to say, "stop trying" is like telling a sun to stop shining. Thanks, but no thanks.


This was all really jumbled and all over the place, but I am just simply tired of all the unwarranted advice.